Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.
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\n\u201cFearful Trauma Is in Your Past\u201d was the title of last week\u2019s \u201cBrenda\u2019s Blog\u201d \u2013 her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.
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\nDear Ones,
\nPerhaps you continue to do what you have always done in terms of daily tasks, or maybe you have shifted those tasks in unique ways.\u00a0 Even though you might not feel that different, your approach to life most certainly is.
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\nWhat was once acceptable or expected is no longer, including your interactions with others.\u00a0 You have become more selective in your approach.
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\nNo longer do you expect to do this or that without thought, nor do you assist others to the level you once did.\u00a0 You have become more independent without fanfare.\u00a0 It just is.
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\nYou are more focused on your path and less troubled by the concerns of others.\u00a0 Not because you are no longer kind or feel less for others, but instead that you now apply a rapid inner assessment of what you need to do and when you need to do it.
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\nEven so, others continue to need or demand your attention and services.\u00a0 The difference is you are no longer as obedient, if you will, to provide them.\u00a0 You have become more selective.
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\nIn 3D, those same demands were met with guilt or anger as you tried to live your life and care for others despite their ability to fulfill many or all of the tasks they asked of you.\u00a0 They pulled at your heartstrings, guilt, and shoulds to encourage you to provide the services you begrudgingly provided despite having to do so in ways that affected your emotional and perhaps, physical health.
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\nYou are now assessing the needs of others versus your needs.
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\nThis is an exhausting time of tremendous growth within you.\u00a0 You do not have the energy to see to the needs of those who clamour for your services and attention, despite their ability to perform many of the tasks they require of you.
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\nSo you feel both guilty and angry.\u00a0 \u201cI don\u2019t have time for myself, and it seems as if they are just sitting around waiting for my services and become angry when I don\u2019t or can\u2019t provide them.\u201d
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\nThis is a time of separation.\u00a0 Not from those you love, but from the extraneous services you provide at the risk of your mental or physical health.
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\nYou are examining yourself and the services you automatically bestowed in 3D.\u00a0 Most likely, you are a natural caretaker and have been for eons.\u00a0 Those who have been with you throughout eons of 3D lives fully expect you to revert to your caretaker mode whenever they request your services.\u00a0 Because such has been true in many of the roles you played with them before your transition, they do not understand your new being any more than you know why you no longer wish to fulfill the caretaking role you assumed for so many lifetimes with the same beings.\u00a0
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\nBeings who are transitioning will be more willing to set you free than those who are not.\u00a0 Even so, those transitioning are likely to fall into the \u201chelp me\u201d mode.\u00a0 Would you not like to have someone at your beck and call, even if you could provide the service for yourself?\u00a0 And so it is with those beings who continue to drain your energy despite having the abilities to care for themselves.
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\nUntil they are required to meet their own needs, most are only too happy to rely on the services of others. And because you likely have a strong caretaker trait within you, given that you accepted the task of shifting Earth from fear to love, it is often easier to caretake others until the exhaustion you are now feeling becomes overwhelming.
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\nYou are no longer a caretaker.\u00a0 Perhaps a better word for who you are becoming is director.\u00a0 You do not have the energy to caretake anyone now, but you can encourage them to prioritize self-care if you feel the need.
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\nIf your circumstances necessitate caring for others, it is time for you to create a \u201cworkaround,\u201d whether that involves financial resources, finding individuals who wish to caretake, or encouraging others to take more responsibility for their own care.
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\nYou are not stuck in the muck without resources.\u00a0 Your inner resources are fully loaded.\u00a0 You merely have to expect that you can create the necessary workaround to evolve without the unnecessary burden of caring for those you have carried for eons.\u00a0 If those you caretake are also transitioning, they possess skills within themselves that it is time for them to activate.\u00a0 And if they are not transitioning, there will be little joy or even interest in caretaking them.
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\nCaretaking is no longer one of your key elements.\u00a0 Adventure, new interests, and directions are now emphasized.\u00a0 Caretaking is not.\u00a0 Allow that to be.
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\nAnd allow yourself to let go of the need to be everything to everyone.\u00a0 You are no longer an Earth caretaker.\u00a0 You are a new being creating a new space for yourself and all who wish to follow.\u00a0 So be it.\u00a0 Amen.\u00a0
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